Find an Audiophile psychotherapist which may be difficult but not impossible.
the one that got away - how do you handle grief?
I just lost a bid for my dream speakers that I had been chasing for a decade. It was pretty stupid because I missed the last hour and maybe I would have won it with another $100. But maybe it's a sign, it's just a piece of hardware, that I should not be obsessed with. - "you can't always get what you want"
Did you always get the gear you thought would make you whole?
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@douglas_schroeder - I’m working my way through your book. Most of it would be helpful to newbies who might be swayed by false and nonessential beliefs. So for a newbie it offers good tips. I differ at the dismissal of isolation devices. While many may have questionable benefits, HRS and CMS isolation seem universally positive results. Controlling electronics micro vibrations has positive sonic results. Also, not everyone is seeking top level Sonics within budgets. Many enjoy trying out different components aka sideways movement for variety. The same goes for vintage gear. I myself have strived for a top transparent SS system, but I also have a second system centered around my 100db speakers to explore tube midrange magic starting with flea watt SETs. Maybe someday I’ll try to build an Eleckit or a speaker kit. |
Kenny Thank you for your comments. Perhaps you would like to set up some testing in your room to see if the isolation is audibly influencing the sound. The book will give you direction. Take care that with speakers they are height matched if testing footers. I understand your appeal to sideways movement for variety, and it could be argued that I have done so in multiplying different genres of speakers versus seeking "the One." I find regarding components, given the multiplicity of system configurations and vastness of the performance spectrum, even in seeking variety one need not settle for a sideways move. When I upgrade electronics, it must advance all my speakers (genres). Sometimes it can be done more economically than at other times. :)
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You equate "grief" with not obtaining instant gratification then you've never actually experienced it and are lamenting about the wrong things. Especially when any specific piece of hi fi gear is a dime a dozen and future opportunities to satisfy your insatiable wants will again present themselves. Patience. |
Eventually, you will find them again. I have made the same mistake. I thought I had bid enough to win, only to find out that I lost because I didn't watch the auction on the last thirty minutes. I know about grief, I sold pieces I should have kept and kept pieces I should have sold. I'm happy to say that this no longer happens. |
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