kb54,
I appreciate your conundrum. I spent a few years with your situation. I was searching for a pair of speakers that <preferably> are front ported; are reasonably efficient >90dB, have soft dome tweeters, and don't irritate my dear wife's esthetics...and that give me pleasure. I discovered that to be a challenging search.
I admit to being a picky listener. I find fault with plenty of speakers. I have yet to hear an aluminum tweeter that I like. Beryllium tweeters irritate my ears - though I loved them when I was in my twenties. I dislike exagerated bass. I love warm-yet-clear midrange. Over a nearly four-year period, I auditioned speakers in N America, Taiwan, Japan, Costa Rica, and even Cambodia. I found a half-dozen(?) speakers that I want to spend the next two decades with, and I was pretty close to settling on a certain pair when a different pair suddenly popped onto my radar. I contacted the seller, and we closed the deal about 10 days later.
My new speakers are similar to my 'old' speakers as they're made by the same guy. My new speakers are Daedalus Audio Muse three-way standmounts (front ported), 95.5dB/8 ohm and play down to 32Hz. My 'old' speakers are Daedalus Audio Apollos - 96.5dB/8 ohm and play down to ~26Hz. My Muse will be shipped to our winter/part-time home in Taiwan while the Apollos will remain in the US. [My wife is from Taiwan.]
Now I'm trying to decide on a 'forever/final' amplifier. I've narrowed my search to ~8 amplifiers.
If you're anywhere near the Willamette Valley, stop on by this summer/fall for a listen!

