Gentlemen, I understand. I was exactly like you. Twenty years ago, I would have been the one arguing vociferously, taking your very position on this matter.
Forgive me for spending 1,500+ hours in reviewing related activities (communication, shipping and receiving, systems setup, interviews conducted for the majority of articles, listening/note taking, and writing) unpaid. I did it because I appreciated having a stream of fine equipment coming to me, it allowed me to discover great gear in my home - yes, there is an accommodation pricing, but not nearly enough to merit the time cost, and no, I have never sought or claimed any product as becoming mine for free over time/use.
I didn’t plan on becoming a reviewer. I didn’t plan on discovering a raft of misnomers in the industry and community. I didn’t plan on writing a book; but it’s a follow on from all the time and experiences. It is quite possible that I will in entirety lose money on the website and publication of the book. I have no delusions that I will make a lot of money from it. I wrote it because there is a disconnect between what is perceived/believed and undergirds the received wisdom of the community, and the reality of what actually happens when handling an audio system.
Behind all of the argument between us, there are quiet, curious audiophiles who will explore it. My greatest joy will be those who have their eyes opened to the mistakes they have been making, will adjust their methods, and end up with listening experiences far beyond what they could have imagined. :)

