I have bought and sold a significant amount of used cartridges.
When I purchase, I buy cartridges that are expensive enough to warrant having a new diamond installed. So not the entry level moving coils. I look closely at the seller and want certain things
Factory cantilever. If its sheared off there is the potential of damage
A pristine body. Anyone who mistreats a cartridge installing it is likely to handle ti roughly
Straight cantilever, not skewed.
A suspension that looks to be riding at the correct height.
I typically play a used cartridge on sacrificial vinyl, often a used copy of Windham Hill piano and acoustic guitar music. If it plays well I keep it for a bit, I guess 200 to 300 hours or until I hear mistracking.
At that point I send it off to a retipper for a new diamond. These days I use only Expert Stylius or AllClear Audio. A diamond only retip is usually $350 plus shipping costs.
I only have 4 cartridges now, and these will do me for the long haul.
Transfiguration Audio Proteus
Kiseki Blackheart 1 gen
Benz Micro Glider H2
Sumiko Blackbird Lo