The dealer, on the other hand, is far from impartial because it’s him I’m buying the speakers from (it’s a buy back pair).
What's buy back, consignment?
the 4 woofers have just been replaced with new ones by the dealer, not sure why, but they should not be a problem I guess)
That's probably the most expensive replacement out of the way. As for the other parts, I think you're over-thinking it. You could buy the replacement mid-range, tweeter, crossover now and keep them in storage. The crossover would likely last longer than you would care. If you're that concerned, ask the dealer if they could work out a price for it.
I wonder if you might consider a previous generation Homage series Amati or Serafino which followed the Futura.
I believe the D.A.D. tweeter started with that generation. That's something I'd consider at loud volume.

