An experience I had with a seller.


A seller of pre-owned audio gear on another site who is advertising some original Audio Alchemy products, indicated in the description "these were from the guys at Schitt". Here is the story. I emailed him indicating, in a very friendly manner, that the Schitt guys were not part of the AA company, then, nor are now. Just friendly fyi info I thought I would share with the seller and was actually surprised by his misinformation. He was quite nasty to me with his response, letting me know he was right. I had respected this seller for years of his success with his sales numbers, with 100% positive feedback. I am bothered by his response, and his lack of information. Why is this bothering me? MrD.

mrdecibel
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Sounds like a bespoke Fleet Street tailor taught him to be fast and loose with words… thank God all my gun dogs are bespoke….

@viridian i always enjoy your contributions 

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Seems he asked a simple question - "Why is this bothering me?"

Most of us absorb what might be seen as abusive language as a personal affront and respond emotionally to that. If the initial encounter was seen (by the OP) as an altruistic comment to help guide someone to the truth, a nasty response might feel even more hurtful.

I once tried to guide a load of fish to a large vat, using what I thought were helpful hand gestures to the crane operator, only to have him spew a rather nasty string of obscenity-laden insults at me. It was so over the top that although I was a bit hurt by the words, I started laughing. I remember watching him later hose down the deck of his boat, turn off the water - look at it all and say "F*ck the situation". We (up on the dock) started laughing and he got mad all over again. 

I learned there's just no talking to some people. ;)