@simonb This part of life is something I lost and rediscovered by making my changes about how I interacted in and around my Audio Hobby.
To become a Hermit in relation to Audio as a Hobby proved for myself to be self enslaving.
The change when made which resulted across the years to become a fully active Mingler. Such a socialness as an outwards expression from a person for their interest in Audio and Recorded Music. Proved to be a One Way Riad, leading to a expansive, inclusive and extensive range of experiences encountered.
The new like minded individuals met, along with Audio Experiences being had, has been the Cornerstone for shaping my life around Audio. My outward expression has also brought into my life others who have their own Hobby's that can be quite beneficial to Audio concepts, and offers to assist with achieving a concept into a prototype are irregular offers, but when made very stimulating.
As for friends and Music Sharing, I have a whole New Experience, good friends of old are gone, life deals those cards, things change. Today, friends are with Career backgrounds in Law, Clergy, Medicine, Design, Retail, Construction. Most musical encounters for me over many many years have been so off the radar to what I would listen to. Today through a retired Clergyman, I listen to Choral Music on a SP10R > Glanz 12" > Miyajima Cart' with all Valve Input / Out Put Phon' and Valve Amplification > ESL Speakers and am a total convert, to the point I have a profound change to the music. This experience is not limited to Choristers.
As the antithesis others have been introduced to the Blues and Rock, and why not. Brahm's to Gary Moore all in a afternoon
On the subject of Friends made with little interest in audio, but recignise my enthusiasm and how their own hobby interests might appeal. I have been recently contacted by somebody who has expanded their interest in 3D Printing.
For my purchasing powders (this is all new to me) there is now the initiative in place as a free service, to produce Arm Wands and Fore End and Rear End connections as a 3D Print, using a selection of Powders inclusive of Carbon, possibly extending to Magnesium. Where the produced parts will be substitute parts for the Tonearm I use. The Tonearm Designer who will receive all produced parts, is totally overwhelmed with what is offered as a means to learn where betterment can be found for exchanging materials.
Does it keep my young who knows, it does keep me out of the Gym.

