There are those that claim a stylus at typical VTF exerts many tons of pressure at its tip. That isn’t true, either.
I am writing this before diving into @antinn 's references but here's my back of the envelope thoughts!
One ton is about 1000-kgs, and pressures used to often be stated in tons per square inch. For example, mild steel had a tensile strength of about 40 tons per square inch (before SI forced the Pascal on us).
So one ton is a million grams, and the pressure of one ton/sq in = the pressure of one gram per millionth of a square inch. The same as a square with sides a thousandth of an inch. There are about 25 mm to an inch, so 25-microns per side.
The half-wavelength of a 20-kHz tone towards the inner limit of a record is about 5 microns. The combined length of both groove walls is about 50-microns. A line stylus with a downforce of 1 gram, that completely fills a half wavelength, would exert about 25 / 5 x 25 / 50 or about 2.5 tons per square inch. Double the downforce and you get 5 tons per square inch. Change to a less filling stylus shape, and the numbers go up again

