FWIW: The concept of elastic limits and transitioning to plastic is discussed in the article Stylus Mass and Reproduction Distortion, J. Walton Wireless-World-1963-04.pdf (worldradiohistory.com) which indicates that stylus mass is a significant factor in distortion and record wear. Walton published a later article Stylus Mass and Elliptical Point specific to elliptical styli in 1966, Walton.pdf (freudhoefer.de).
The two factors that are important are the effective stylus mass (which includes the cantilever and is reported by some manufacturers) which the 1st article addresses tests done with a stylus mass of 3-mg (which is quite high by today's standards) and the VTF which the 1st article conclusion states to be less than 5-gms. Here is a list of effective stylus/tip-masses first developed byPhono Cartridge Equivalent/Effective Tip Mass Master List | Audio Science Review (ASR) Forum with the latest list - Effective Tip Mass | myhi.fi. Most modern cartridges have low effective stylus mass.

