"Stylus", not "stylist". You can get your hair done by a stylist.
I would never ever recommend putting any sort of rubber or other restoration product on a cantilever or any other part of a cartridge suspension. First of all, the parts are so tiny that you, an amateur like me, have no hope of not splashing the material onto other parts of the cartridge that would suffer from it. And I repeat what I wrote above, a cartridge is inherently microphonic, and hearing faint music from the cartridge is completely normal. True, in some cases it is more audible than in other cases. That may indeed have to do with cartridge compliance, but I think it also has to do with the other components in the chain and the recording itself.

