I hope to learn more about acoustics, but until then I agree with you that merely throwing money at an audio system is counterproductive and gauche.
I will add some fact to illustrate the power of acoustics.
In a system/room under acoustic control you can hear a single straw or a small tube used as a resonator his audible effect on some frequencies range will contribute by his dimensions and location to the sound experience as much as a cable or in some case as a dac upgrade, if there is many resonators well placed or not ...
People are not conscious of that... They are only conscious of a change if it concern a piece of gear not about the material specific content of the room , be it a type of materials (wood, glass, fabric, etc) or some resonators, or reflexive surface, diffusive one absorbing one etc ...
That is my point about acoustics power...
The next step after room control is stereo crosstalk limitations which are adressed by Dr. Choueiri filters ...
All this is way more important than most upgrade ...

