Wasted Years.

Continues to baffle me how audiophiles seem to want to deny they are in fact audiophiles. I know I'm going to repeat myself. But why on earth would I want to deny I listen to the sound quality or qualities produced by this system I spent so much effort and funds to amass? I absolutely notice and admire very certain and specific sonic presentations offered by various recordings. And I also experience the same sensations with the wide variability of presentations I can achieve by mixing and matching my various amps pre's, dacs. I can both chew gum and walk simultaneously, why should I deny myself the pleasures of sonic excellence.

This thread made me think of a couple of Mark Twain quotes which are. "Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from making bad decisions" and the second one, "it ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so". I thought these were relevant. Enjoy the music

A solid system should be able to make the music come to life and I agree that musicality and realism should be more important than things like resolution and perfect playback.

I've also found myself in the trap of listening just for sound purposes.  It is part of our minds getting into habits when we are auditioning gear and trying to find what sounds the best.

Best advice I can give you, which I give to myself, is if you find yourself listening more to the sound than the music, take a deep breath in and out while trying to focus on nothing but the music itself.  Then do that again.  If you get distracted, let that thought pass and continue to breath and listen to the heart and soul of the music, stretching your mind into it until you become totally entranced.

This can be done at any point during one's audiophile journey.  Breathe and let the music speak.

Continues to baffle me how audiophiles seem to want to deny they are in fact audiophiles. I know I’m going to repeat myself. But why on earth would I want to deny I listen to the sound quality or qualities produced by this system I spent so much effort and funds to amass? I absolutely notice and admire very certain and specific sonic presentations offered by various recordings. And I also experience the same sensations with the wide variability of presentations I can achieve by mixing and matching my various amps pre’s, dacs. I can both chew gum and walk simultaneously, why should I deny myself the pleasures of sonic excellence.

Agree - there is this nasty trope that enjoying hifi gear and pursuit of elevated sound quality is somehow inferior to and less virtuous than "pure" music listening & the pursuit of large music collections (frankly it gets obonoxious to browse / search past a certain point). And also, that the former somehow precludes (partially or wholly) the latter. It’s not true at all. I proudly enjoy both. 

My other least favorite corollary of this is the implication that you’re some kind of rube if your gear collection totals more $ than your music collection. What?!

There is successful audiophiles and obsessed audiophiles...

If you had learned how to optimize a chosen synergetical system in a room for your ears you are a successful one..

If you are more obsessed by the gear design pieces and price  and goes around in a wheel of purchase, you are an obsessed audiophile...

I am a successful audiophile...( my limited budget helped me here putting me in the obligation to learn more than purchase ) 

i enjoy what i had optimized successfully ... (a low cost system but give me the money i will optimize a costlier one; but we have all our needs, budget, room limitation)  What matter is knowing how to optimize any system at any price ...

Acoustics is the root ...(not mere room acoustic but acoustics with an "s" )

Acoustician are always successful audiophile...

Gear obsessed people generally dont use acoustics concepts and experiments... The objectivist use electrical specs, the subjectivist use "gear tasting", the two groups are focussed on the gear...