Couple of thoughts from a fellow Focal owner:
Are the cables fully run-in?
Your speakers are very close together and this may be strangling the midrange thus highlighting the HF which you aren't loving.
My mains are a little more than 8' apart. Experiment with toe-in and rake which will change how the HF arrives at your position. Typically, Focal's need very little toe-in.
Perhaps find a way to temporarily hang a blanket on the front wall behind your mains and see if this improves things. Good luck and cheers.

