Mass on counterweight: I used a small disc that was part of a footer (cone + disc) with a center cavity that fits on top of the c-weight screw head. A coin with a hole might work too. So with a little bluetac it is stable.
Effective mass: not sure! Seems to be a quite complex calculation (google effective mass, here and on vinylengine). Some argue that the c-weight mass adds ca 10 percent of the total added effective mass (90 pct at the headshell).
It is a fairly easy to experiment with, with coins of different sizes and bluetac in between. If I understand @JCarr right, the effective mass should be 16-18g (including the 10-11g of the SME V itself). So far I am positive, yesterday I even wondered if my horn speakers now sound a little bit more electrostat-like.