Sad songs- We love them- We need them


Hello everyone,

I was listening the other day to a sad song on my playlist and realized their ability to invoke a powerful emotional reaction. Usually about someone in your life. Your children, your special lady or man or maybe someone who is no longer living. I realized we need these songs to remind us life is short and to remember what is most important to us. I thought I would ask everyone to list a song or two that is special to them. It doesn’t necessarily need to be a sad song. I have children so I will start with a few songs that remind me to tell them I love them more often or give them an extra hug or two. 
 

Cats in the cradle- Harry Chapin

Jacobs Dream - Allison Krause 

Hell Is for Children- Pat Benetar

Ron

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''Honey'' , by Bobby Goldsboro   and  ''The First of May''  ,by the Bee Gees.

"Put The Bone In" Terry Jacks.  (This was actually on the flip side of "Seasons In The Sun.")

Another sad...dish song, this one hit me like a train.... you can turn on English subtitles.

 

In memory of Mimi Parker of one of my favourite bands, Low, who sadly passed away this week. God Bless ❤️

 

Great thread!

Interesting, how subjective this can be. . .

A few that spring to mind:

Severely underrated, IMHO, Janis Ian has written some devastatingly sad songs. Try "Jessie".

Sandy Denny: I can’t listen to her solo recordings due to the emotionality. Nearly every performance seems laden with despair, whether explicit of implicit. Too dark for me-- I need some light along with the shadows.

Stones: Wild Horses, No Expectations, Let It Loose, I Got the Blues, ("interpreting" Robert Johnson): Love In Vain

Richard Thompson: The End of the Rainbow, Withered and Died, Never Again, Walking On a Wire, When the Spell is Broken, to name but a few.

Jesse Winchester: I Wave Bye Bye

Allmans: Whipping Post, Dreams, Please Call Home, Worried Down With the Blues

Emmy Lou Harris: Too Far Gone, Boulder to Birmingham, Tulsa Queen, to name but three.

John Hiatt: Take It Down, Icy Blue Heart

Janis Joplin: Kozmic Blues, Maybe, Little Girl Blue

Iris Dement; simply the timbre of her voice brings on the tears, so I rarely listen to her.

There are overtly sad songs and then there songs that are "pleasurably sad" ("wistful"?) that which I identify with songs such as "Winter" by the Stones, "Melissa" by the Allmans, "Stella Blue" by the Dead, "All In Love Is Fair" by Stevie Wonder, "The Wind Cries Mary" by Jimi Hendrix.

There are also songs whose theme is surviving sadness and finding some sort of inner strength to move on from it, such as "It Ain’t My Cross To Bear" by the Allmans, "Just Cause I’m In Love With You" by Jesses Winchester, "Walk Away" as sung by Ann Peebles and many others, particularly in the Blues and R&B genres.