It is difficult to take sides, especially without the details of this situation which, I am sure, is complex. Still, I am wishing you the best possible outcome and hope you consider some of the solutions offered here.
to my friends of AudiogoN,
Because of an vindictive/evil provider at the local VA, I will be forced into a living situation that is punitive. Not your problem and I do want you all to do well. I simply may not have the access to be as active as I have been. My best to all of you. A world class M.D. once said that medical people at the VA are basically postal workers.....not to be down on postal workers, but if I want a package to get somewhere quick and safe.....FedEx or UPS.