“Civilian” reaction to your gear?


What kind of reaction do you see/get when non-gearheads see or hear your systems? 
I have gotten the full spectrum- one person called my assembly of gear obnoxious (call me obnoxious, ok, but my gear? Fighting words!). Others have been politely  (and sometimes dismissively) curious; I’ve been asked if it’s as good as Bose (I usually say “close”); and some thought this level of music reproduction at home was not possible. Many have asked what does each “box” do. 
For the genuinely curious I tell them “sit hear” followed by “what would you like to hear”? I play their choice (thank you Qobuz) and invariably the expression on their is quite positive. 

zavato

Yes l have to admit, l am a self assessed fringe obscene purchaser. I spend far too much money on music and gear, always have. Even an oddball myself within a small percentage of the population with such a hobby, but l leave those reading these comments to self assess themselves.

 

With regards to cars and trucks, l have never given it a thought. As long as they start maybe!

@barts 

Not into music at all?  I was going to say something like "Poor guy-- doesn’t know what he’s missing" but then again, maybe he’s a member of a majority that’s immune to art. Maybe @mylogic is right -- we’re the oddballs. It sure is fun, being odd, though!  

 

@kerrybh 

I agree with your comment about how people used to congregate at audio salons and learned about music. A corollary though, is that the music we had available spanned the time from analogue to digital, so many of us were accustomed to acoustic instruments. The younger crowd’s music is mostly electronic (going by the pop charts), so it’s not surprising they don’t react to a beautiful violin solo. The problem with that is that nearly all audiophile equipment is designed to make acoustic instruments sound like ’themselves’ as heard live. How do you evaluate when you listen to music that is "assembled" (e.g.,, the guitarist phones in (literally) his part of the music? I call it ’The Frankenstein effect’ in pop music: everything assembled, but very little of the music is ’real’ instruments. 
It’s no surprise that the young thing audiophiles are delusional and ’hearing things.’ They haven’t heard what we have, and consequently it is MUCH harder for them to evaluate music, when most of their musical diet is ’made up’ sounds from a computer. I’d think it snake oil, too, if I didn’t know intimately, the sound of a Yamaha flute, and someone was going on about all the ’low-level’ supposed detail. The kind of detail that distinguishes what Brand/model an instrument is instead of sounding like a generic flute (or any other instrument).

That was supposed to read, "It's no surpise that the young 'uns  think audiophiles are delusional and 'hearing things.'