Think back on my systems. I realize they often lend themselves of a way of listening. I used to have a system I called my "reference system", because it was so good at highlighting the venue and nuances of the mastering. Ambience would hit you in the face and each instrument was isolated and analytically and somewhat sterilely presented for examination. I would get bored listening to it after one album, and I would go do something else.
This just wasn’t obvious to me until I upgraded my headphone system to the wonderful Woo 300B headphone amp with Takatsuki 300B tubes. This system became so musically powerful and natural sounding, it quickly inspired me to turn on my main system to continue listening. I literally had the blood drain out of my face and upper body as I was confronted with a dry cardboard like sound, filled with sterile sounds striped of warmth and natural sound. I remember the disappointment I experienced from this amazing $70K collection of electronics (worth far more than both my cars at the time). I had spent decades putting it together.
I am condensing a few different epiphanies into one to make my point.
That was the turning point. Over the next 15 years I completely turned around my main system to where it is today. I really have a difficult time listening to my system for more than a few seconds... the music draws me over and I forget about listening to the system.
So, thinking about it... your system also pushes you to naturally listen in a certain way.