“Civilian” reaction to your gear?


What kind of reaction do you see/get when non-gearheads see or hear your systems? 
I have gotten the full spectrum- one person called my assembly of gear obnoxious (call me obnoxious, ok, but my gear? Fighting words!). Others have been politely  (and sometimes dismissively) curious; I’ve been asked if it’s as good as Bose (I usually say “close”); and some thought this level of music reproduction at home was not possible. Many have asked what does each “box” do. 
For the genuinely curious I tell them “sit hear” followed by “what would you like to hear”? I play their choice (thank you Qobuz) and invariably the expression on their is quite positive. 

zavato

A sadly now late artist friend said my system looked sculptural. Most are just bemused by the sheer size of the loudspeakers and stacks of electronics. 

I keep both systems components in cabinets to hide my compulsion….now speakers?  Well usually get eye roll or jokes/comments like “Wow your speakers sure are well endowed” or “My what big speakers you have to listen to”  and “I think your speakers need birth control”….just a few.

The responses have been mixed. Some sort of shrug and say "That's nice." Others have said they've never heard music sound so good. The phantom center channel gets remarked on - I'm surprised at how many folks have never experienced that phenomenon. 

 

If I needed people to give me validation on my choice to have a nice sound system, I'd of ditched this pursuit a long time ago. But I have moderate responses when people have showed me their wine collection, or their cars, or their fishing gear. They are enthusiasts, and hoped I'd be impressed. I loved that they care about something, but I just wasn't interested in that particular thing.  I was interested in their interest, but that is about it. I guess I shouldn't expect more than that for my little madness...

 

David

People love the acoustic treatments and then are blown away by anything I play. They have usually never heard something so "real."