the one that got away - how do you handle grief?


I just lost a bid for my dream speakers that I had been chasing for a decade. It was pretty stupid because I missed the last hour and maybe I would have won it with another $100. But maybe it's a sign, it's just a piece of hardware, that I should not be obsessed with. - "you can't always get what you want"

Did you always get the gear you thought would make you whole?

parkergetdean

@douglas_schroeder wrote:

I discuss in my book, The Audiophile Laws, how thriftiness is a hindrance to building a better system.

As per the Cambridge Dictionary from a Google search:

Thrifty means being careful and smart with money and resources, specifically by avoiding waste and thinking about the future.

Notice the inclusion of ’smart.’ In filmmaking it is known how a limited budget, out of sheer necessity, can make for more creative approaches in different aspects of a production and thereby save a lot of money. Some of these rather innovative approaches then "bleed" into more expensive productions to make more effective use of a budget, but sometimes also because they’re simply a better way of "attacking" a problem that wasn’t hitherto considered. In Formula 1 racing it is the reversed scenario of design innovations bleeding down into cheaper cars, but it’s worth noticing that F1 is actually a cutting edge design environment, something I wouldn’t ascribe to high-end, domestic audio - in general. 

Money - that is, lots of it - can make you lazy, conservative and be preoccupied with what more money will grant you (or make you look or feel), rather than being invested in and actually cognizant about addressing obstacles or bottlenecks in a setup chain from a wider and more open-minded lense/perspective, and which are believed to limit core parameters of sound reproduction.

If the goal really is better sound, then why is expense alone the major factor to convey as that which holds importance? From my chair that is extremely narrow minded, or at least it tells me very little about what to expect. I’m not saying money doesn’t matter - to a point, that is - but it really is a deeply uninteresting aspect when all is said and done. 

[...] when budget rules the day in audiophilia, the hobbyist should not think that they are making a system that approaches SOTA.

The same could be said of those who have loads of money at their disposal. Strictly speaking, it’s not the money but the goal/ambition of what you want to achieve in audio reproduction, in addition to having an open mind, and how one is aware and capable of converting that into sonic effect. With a relatively normal income and one who has just that ability and mindset, I dare say I’d expect better sound from the hands and mind of that individual than one who cares only about bloviating about how more money is the holy grail in audio reproduction. 

There is a great deal of delusion in this hobby, where some people who put relatively little into the system, given the spectrum of equipment and cost,  proclaim they have something extraordinary.

Do they really proclaim that, or are they simply happy about the sound from their setup of a limited budget? But sure, some are no doubt delusional about how their setup would compare to others. 

Such people are guilty of judging show systems harshly, with comments such as, "My system at home is better than all those at the show." It’s nothing more than pride and arrogance, given that they may have never had such equipment in their home. Without any direct comparison, they presume to judge the lot of higher end gear. That kind of sweeping statement is a result of money concerns dominating their discussion of all things audio. The comments are motivated by one overarching thing, money or thriftiness.They tend to judge sound not on the basis of absolute performance but on the basis of value of the product and performance. Of course, anything obviously superior suffers from diminishing returns, etc.

That’s a big fat, arrogant assumption. From a different vantage point: if I go to a show I would expect most of the exhibitors to be given the same less-than-ideal conditions, and if not it’s allowed, as an exhibitor, to do the work and find out how to maximize the performance of the gear you want to show off (just like the other exhibitors), and if necessary/possible find the more proper spacing to accommodate that. When comparing those exhibitors at a given show I do my ranking from what sounds the best to my ears with no consideration to cost, period. Do I need to say that the most expensive rooms aren’t necessarily the better sounding ones? That’s not necessarily indicative of these expensive setups inherent and more optimized potential, but they’re not doing me of themselves any favor in falling flat on their bellies with a so-so presentation when comparing them to much cheaper setups from other exhibitors. And no, for this discussion I’m not bringing my own setup into the equation as a comparative measure, but strictly what’s confined to a given show itself. 

It costs a lot of money to get to SOTA performance. That’s not a judgment against the budget limited hobbyist, it’s just a fact.

The overriding fact as I see it is the importance of what you bring into this endeavor with your skills and mindset. The amount of money is, if not irrelevant, then of lesser importance.

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My posts have been pertinent, because many audiophiles believe that by chasing vintage gear ( again, not speaking directly to parkergetdean’s philosophy of system building, as I do not know it) and spending far less, they can achieve sound quality on par with systems costing many multiples more built with current gear. 

phusius, well thought out comments which I appreciate. 

To your points, I do not condemn thriftiness in general. I am saying that it often impedes advancing the system. If the highest concern is getting better sound, then thriftiness is a problem because it shrinks the pool of potential products to build a system down to inexpensive, vintage, etc. 

Correct, thriftiness is not to be equated to a person with a lower budget. That is why I stated that I have nothing against budget audiophilia. However, I was a budget audiophile because I was thrifty, not because I could not afford better gear.  I was not convinced that more expensive gear was that much better. I never would have spent to compare better gear in my home because I thought I was getting sound close to the expensive systems. I only learned how expansive the performance spectrum is, and how far short I was falling, by handling better gear though reviewing. The experience of handling finer gear was a direct threat to my thriftiness! To reach a different plateau on the performance (and enjoyment) spectrum, I had to spend more and let go of the notion of diminishing returns. 

There are many audiophiles who have high net worth and are thrifty. I have no judgement about any of that. I have budgeted for 40 years and strongly recommend it to economy audiophiles as a means to work toward a better system and higher satisfaction as a listener. However, regardless of one’s occupation, net worth, income, etc. being thrifty, i.e., looking to how little can be spent with building an audio system does not typically lead to higher performance. 

Which leads to the comment regarding shows and systems. Yes, obviously there is quite a spectrum of performance of systems at shows. True, a person’s home system may be quite a bit better than some show systems. I have several times heard audiophiles - I think, following every show I have attended, I have heard or seen audiophiles comment that their system was better than all the show systems they have heard.  However, that determination cannot be made apart from direct comparison in the same room. Many audiophiles presume to judge an entire show worth of setups, much less particular products, without hearing any of them in their room. I suggest the tendency to do so is motivated by thriftiness. 

Absolutely, one’s resourcefulness and openness to options and new methods can have a huge impact on system performance, and often it can save the audiophile money. 

I am not saying money is the most important variable in system building. It is an important variable. There are many other variables that have less to do with money which could be said to be as important. 

Summarizing: Vintage gear is seen by some as a way to beat the system, to get the best sound on the cheap. I took the opportunity to discuss low cost gear and thriftiness, as the OP was about a vintage speaker. Thirfty people cover the socioeconomic spectrum. In absolute terms, being thrifty inhibits system building. The performance spectrum is far, far wider than most thrifty audiophiles are aware.