the one that got away - how do you handle grief?

You can gauge a person’s wealth by the quality of his friends. I consider myself a wealthy man. It’s all about the Love my friend. 

by the friendship gauge, I am not well off, with my low tolerance, high expectations, I am good at losing friends more so than making new ones

@parkergetdean

How do you bid in the final minutes?  Look at Gixen it’s a sniper. It doesn’t always work, but it has dramatically increased my success without having to go to nuclear war in one bid and over paying. 

I have used esnipe.com for many years and it bids for you in the last seconds that ensures you get the last bid, win or lose. Oldest snipe tool and the best by far. Only for eBay; not affiliated with eBay.

My dream speakers were the B&W 801 Matrix from 1991. At that time they were listed for about 15k I believe. I was 24 so they were really out of my budget to say the least. Then years later when I stated getting into / obsessed with gear again I came across them and had to get them. . I was inches away of pulling the plug and btw they were only a few miles from my home to make things even better. Then as looked them over and discussed and with some photos of the speakers with one of my friends I met on here who owned a few pairs of them over the years he told me that they had been modified and definitely not original. I was heartbroken. A few months later another pair came up for sale from Texas btw I’m in NJ. He had them since he bought them brand new. Still mint condition. We talked for a few days about them and shipping. He was incredibly knowledgeable with all of that also. Long story short  I bought them and still have them today and are my main speakers.  Still loving them !!! Things definitely happen for a reason so u just might wind up with a better pair one day !!!