Audiophiles are people who enjoy chasing perfection. Who enjoy the process as well as the outcome. I really enjoy extremely complex and ambiguous problems. Like those of which the goals are unclear, the means to the end are unclear, the solutions are ambiguous with multiple variables. It holds my attention. Also, I love listening to music. So, it has been my pursuit for most of my life and I have, what for me is the ultimate solution. Along the way I have had to figure out what my goals were, how components interact within systems, how to assess equipment and separate hype from reality... etc.
You have made some good observations. I would not touch Magico with a ten foot pole. Not because they are not spectacularly good speakers, but for the reason you stated. You need an incredible set of support equipment and venue to allow them perform well. In anything less they sound terrible.
So, if the process isn’t really fun and enjoyable... finding the perfect balance of equipment and venue is not going to happen. There are so many variables that there is virtually no chance of you accidenting upon them. So, best to adjust your goals towards easy going, relaxed components that are likely to produce good sounding music, versus a scientific instrument like the Web telescope for sound reproduction. The latter will take a lifetime of work to make the output sound great...
So, good post, good point.