My wife loves Pandora and even though there are alternatives that sound better, I have not been able to convert her ...
That is not at all uncommon - many people prefer the sound of low resolution, dynamically compressed, limited frequency range recordings. Lossy compression algorithms use perceptual coding and are very sophisticated, and can sound more "lively" and punchy than higher resolution recordings. I know that sounds odd to many of us audiophiles, but some listeners enjoy the sound of these lossy files so much that they actually believe they are hi-res - and they defend their preference mightily! See this messy thread, for example.
However, there is no need to defend preference. There is no wrong "preference." Whatever your wife enjoys is what she enjoys.

