I can get despondent, but I try to remember what I told my children and now grandchildren
'You gotta have your own standards'.
Kate Wolf has a line I like:
"Find what you really care about and live a life that shows it"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ROCW9PrPfG0&list=RDROCW9PrPfG0&start_radio=1

