@hilde45 I appreciate your thoughtful comments. We are dancing on a conceptual pinhead-saying close to the same things in different ways. There may be reasons why we have different subjective tastes, but that doesn't mean our tastes are less different or that my preference is right and yours as wrong. I'm sure there is some difference in brain chemistry that explains why I know that butter pecan ice cream is best while many mistakenly prefer chocolate. Or that some misguided folks prefer opera to blues.
I tend to believe that people generally form an impression of the sound from equipment, good or bad, pretty quickly. For whatever reasons-and you make good points about what those might be-a certain sound signature will be pleasing to some but not others. I think the impression is often based on sound but also influenced by other factors-appearance of the gear, mood, expectation bias, preconceived brand opinions, etc. We then often backfit our impressions by wrapping them in fancy, poorly defined audiophile jargon, but that doesn't change the fact that we like what we like. I agree that we can have productive discussions concerning the nuance of our subjective preferences, but often don't because a lot of audiophiles seem to think that their preference is a universal truth-not just a personal preference.
How many times have you seen posts saying "I hear it this way and if you don't something is wrong with your ears or your system." Or heard from folks who believe if someone spends more for gear than they judge necessary that makes them a fool. Or if they spend less, their system is junk and they know nothing. We see people get quite agitated to the point of name calling because not everyone accepts their view that CDs are better than vinyl, etc. I think these are the attitudes that inhibit constructive discussion.

