I agree with you about tweakers, and I think you can add your 2 cents. But it could be in a nicely put question. Like where did you hear that. Or, do you really hear a difference in the quality of your music. Or I have tried that and it didn't work for me.
Guys get caught up in this kind of stuff. Jay Leno with all his cars. (Sorry to hear he was burned fixing one.) I had an audiophile friend who taught at Harvard. He bought a good system with Wilson Sasha speakers, an ARC Reference 3 preamp, Hovland Radia amp (which was handed down to me when he died, as was the ARC Reference.)
But he was a workaholic who spent all his time in the office and listened to his computer for music, while his wife listened to the big rig and really didn't like it. I'm not a fan of Wilson speakers, either. I find them dry. But a lot of people love them.
He was a guy who grew up poor, and he'd always wanted a primo stereo. He asked me to help him buy it, and it was a lot of fun spending that kind of money on gear. He drove a BMW M series and showed me how fast it accelerated on the freeway. Here was a man with a PhD teaching at the premier college in the world. People have their own quirks. If it makes them happy, what the heck. (I use heck because I have had posts deleted for using stronger words.)
It's probably my age, because I used to be far more judgmental. I think I have a better understanding of human nature. Everybody gets caught up in stupid things. I think of Larry Summers, the once president of Harvard, getting caught up with Epstein. Of course, that was illegal and buying cable for $2k a foot might just be stupid. I say might because I've never been able to try out $2K per foot cable and I'm sure I never will. Next item on my list would probably be a better streamer, but as far as my wife is concerned, my list is complete. I could spend $300 on a piece of clothing, but another $300 into my stereo and she will flip.

