I agree that setting up a turntable can be a daunting experience.
I decided a while ago, to become a “student” of the process. I bought a used smartractor, a mini microscope and an azimuth block with grid lines.
Understanding VTF, VTA, rake angle, azimuth, overhang etc will allow you to understand which attributes contribute to the sound you are looking for.
Then find a turntable and arm combination that allows for easy adjustment of these parameters.
I still worked with my audio dealer, but instead of relying on him for everything, I learned how to be self sufficient. I believe I get better sound from my turntable as a result.