It's your speakers...they have a sterile sound. D’Agostino is also a bit of a sterile boy.
Some simple fixes to attempt....
Get a dac with peq capability like an RME and put a low Q...0.5-ish Q bump around 1500hz by 2 or 3 db...see what happens. That region being recessed w.r.t overall tonal balance can bring you clinical sterility. Changing dacs and cables for ever and ever is not the fix.
Raise the crossover on subs a bit (drop level if needed). With dual subs you won't localize anything.
D’Agostino HD Preamp, M400 amps, Aurender W20 with their Master Clock. Wislson Benesch Resolutions with two REL 32 subs. Great interconnects.
Have a Chord DAVE DAC. It sounds good. Still a little clinical and sterile.

