Stuartk, In my personal experience, listening, getting, and yes, tolerating, many times lead to liking
Perhaps I simply lack sufficient patience for hanging out in the "zone of tolerance" long enough for it to transition to "liking". When I go back, re-listen, I almost never find something I haven’t liked in the past has become appealing. But it also works the other way -- what I like, I tend to like for a very long time.
I dont know if i takes the times i will learn how to appreciate every single individual artists. I dont think so.
For each singular artist i listen my gut and my feeling guide me...i rarely change my mind...But there exist a slow changin evolution in my musical journey...
Perhaps I’m interpreting this in a way you don’t intend, but I relate...

