toddalin said:
When I listen to music, I don’t transport to the venue, but rather transport the venue to the room. A deader room would put me more at the venue.
When I do videos they tend to be brighter than what I hear on the couch because my head is typically back to the cushion and the mic stands "proud" away from the cushions. Even moving your head forward a few inches relative to the back of the couch causes major change to the frequency balance.
Mr Boochie said:
This recording business is a part of audio that I never put effort into before. It is a much different world from playback.
The mic’s position is critical. A few inches, up or down in relationship to the midrange/tweeter and woofers, can make a notable difference in the recording. You don’t hear it in real time, but it appears in the recording.
https://youtu.be/PVVwzcXtBNk
Recorded with mics on camera. They are too high = muddy mix, shifted to the high frequencies. Bass dynamics are hurt the most by poor mic placement and room acoustics. Mics were at 8-foot distance from the speakers. 54 inches off the ground.
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https://youtu.be/PVVwzcXtBNk
Close mic’ing (mics at 18 inches from the front of the speakers and 22 inches in height).
In my experience, ensuring the mics are well supported and isolated from speaker vibrations helps clarity. They pick up extraneous vibrations that muddy or add artificial brightness.

BTW, Mr Boochie uses, and these are recordings of JBL L300 speakers.