Did you try plugging the port on your sub? Just push some foam or a sock into it. Yes of course playing with the phase (timing) will change the curve, that’s the whole idea. Get a second sub.
Does your SVS sub not have the ability to adjust remotely from your phone? There is more than phase to adjust. You need to also vary the output SPL, Raise or lower the crossover frequency, Change the slope of crossover from 6dB/octave to 24dB/octave, vary the Q and room gain. If you change any of these settings then go back and adjust phase again, and so forth.
Bass Traps? from my post above: The bass traps absorb some of the low frequencies that build up particularly in corners but not exclusively. They help reduce the severity of room modes and standing waves.
It appears you did not comprehend my long post trying to explain all this so the best advice now is to learn from the masters. Look at articles from Earl Geddes, Floyd Toole and Todd Welti on multi-subs. Fussing around with DSP will not get you there.



