“It’s not about the money, it’s about feeling like a sucker. ”
It’s all about the perspective under given conditions. You can buy a 10 year old used BMW and fill it up with cheapest gas and not feel like a sucker.
Would you fill a brand new BMW as a first owner with cheapest gas….may be you will, maybe you won’t. That would be your prerogative. You and I both know, what is a recommended fuel rating for a BMW.
My comment about 87 Octane stems from ownership of Alpina B7 and M3 (purchased new)….would they run on 87 Octane, without a doubt. But a 91 or higher Octane ensures optimal performance and longevity of the engine.

