As the OP, thanks to all for teaching me so much. Here is a summary of where I am now.
I have two systems: (1) Moon 791/Moon 761/Wilson Watt Puppies (50th anniversary), and an older (2) Auralic Vega G2.1/Moon761/B&W Nautilus 804. (The B&Ws might seem like a weak link but I’ve had them since 2002 and love them.)
My goal: separate the Wifi and audio LANS to the extent possible. I concede that this may not be the optimal strategy, but that’s what I tried out (cf @soix @sns).
I used a TP-Link ER707-M2 as the baseline router. Rationale: I have a 2 gig connection and wanted to exploit their 2.5gb port for the Eero mesh. The TP-Link has no wifi though I would have disabled it anyway. I turned off all the Omada stuff. It is serving up IP addresses and that’s that.
(WiFi) Eero running in bridge mode from the 2.5 gb LAN port.
(Audio 1) I am using the SFP port on the router to feed a fiber optic cable using Finisar transceivers. This runs to an Etherregen (with a Farad LPS) and then into the Auralic.
(Audio 2) LAN ethernet out -> long run to another room ->Trendnet unmanaged switch -> fiber via Finisar again -> second Etherregen -> Moon 791.
(Roon core) LAN ethernet to Roon core (MacMini).
These LANs are all flat with the same subnet and I have zero problem with Roon discovery -- my phone is on the Eero mesh and has no problem reaching out to the audio LANs.
The sound is amazing. (Of course, the WWPs are better than the B&Ws.)
I am sure that this setup can be improved but unless I swap out some serious core equipment (e.g., the B&Ws which I am kind of attached to), I do not believe it can be significantly improved. For instance, the Farad clearly and quite emphatically improved the SQ for my system ending at the B&Ws, but it seemed to have a negligible effect on the other system ending with the WWPs. I mention this only to say that while I surely suffer from some degree of confirmation bias, it is unlikely that all the perceived improvement can be laid at that particular door.
There is so much more that can be done. Some of it I will do, like a better power supply for the router. But I am pretty sure that (barring better core equipment) I am most of the way there. As always guys, your suggestions are most welcome and will be implemented when I next find the time...

