Hi @weebeesdad
It just so happens that I can offer some insight into your situation. I recently moved into a newly refurbished old house, and while the room in which I listen is decent sized, I have no choice but to place the KIMS along the long wall. This, in turn, means that I can only comfortably place them almost exactly three feet (front plane) from the rear wall.
At first, I did experience some bass bloat, but through trial and error, and a fair number of tweaks, I was able to improve the situation significantly. I was not able to eliminate it entirely, but am now at the stage where I am not aware of any issues with well-recorded music.
Perhaps I didn't update my system profile, but I am using a Circle Labs A200 integrated, which does utilize two tubes in the preamp stage. It drives the KIMS well, though I have not tried other amps, so it would be impossible for me to compare.
If you are able to sit far enough away from the speakers (3m+), the image height is fine. They are designed to disperse the sound upwards (tilted), and create a good-sized image. If one has a tighter window, it can be mitigated by reducing the tilt angle.
One of the interesting aspects of working to mitigate the bass issue was that I became very aware of the distinctions, in terms of bass, in various recordings. It's not simply a matter of genre, but how the bass was recorded and mixed. Good recordings present no problems now, and that includes a high percentage of the CDs that I own.
I could understand if you are reluctant to go with them under the circumstances, but I will say that I have no regrets. The bass is tight and clean with good recordings, and the small percentage that still sound bloated I can easily live without.
If you have any interest in the various steps that I took to mitigate the problem, I'll be happy to describe them.
Cheers!