Best high-end headphones with noice cancellation ...

Your going to think I'm nuts but give the Cleer Flow II's a shot.  They're on sale for Father's Day at $150 right now, normally $200 and they are a performer that punches way above their weight.  Check out the latest review from April 30th, https://www.soundphilereview.com/reviews/cleer-flow-ii-review-12933/ and from Forbes in February,

https://www.forbes.com/sites/marksparrow/2021/02/09/these-cleer-flow-ii-headphones-sound-superb-and-cut-out-most-distracting-noises/?sh=1b2ed1755f7b

Maybe you could try some TWS headphones, like Bose, Sony, Beats... If your family likes sports, you could also try bone conduction headphones like Naenka, AfterShokz...

Sony’s flagship Sony WH-1000XM4 is the successor to the WH-1000XM3 and brings support for multi-device pairing, surprisingly effective DSEE Extreme audio upscaling and auto on/off. However, the primary reason to pick these headphones is of course the exceptional noise cancellation. Mcdvoice