NEWS FLASH!! Listening to Music is NOT a "Distraction."
I wish I had a free music download for every time I’ve heard the statement: “Music is a distraction”. It’s been tossed around for eons like a worn-out Frisbee. After a while we just ignore the bite marks and warbles and just let it fly. From a distance, casual onlookers think everything is just hunky dory. And, for a moment in time, so do we.
A “distraction” implies an activity that is trivial, lacking both substance and value. Music is neither trivial, nor without substance or value. It is part of life -- and living.
An example of a “distraction”: My “normal” work week was 70+ hours a week. After 10+ hours of whack-a-mole problem solving, some days I’d head to the movie rental store to pick something out. My movie prerequisites were pretty simple: 1) nobody gets killed or maimed. 2) People are generally nice to each other. And 3) a plot that doesn’t make me think very hard. I’d grab an easy to prepare entre’ (or take out), something soothing to drink and spend the next 2 hours being “comfortably numb”. In other words, a distraction – from work.
Listening to music may be the most alive we feel that day. Or, that week. When we’re fully engaged, our bodies and minds fully resonate with the thing we are experiencing. Our senses are at their peak. We’re celebrating genius, humbled by the “invitation” to be part of something truly extraordinary. We smile. We get all weepie for the 1,400thtime during the same point in the soundtrack. We’re able to “resurrect” the energy and presence of a long-deceased musician; inviting someone long gone to hold a microphone 5’ off the floor and belt out a vocal in the center of our “stage”.
If there is anything “therapeutic” about listening to music at home, it is the liberation created when grasping onto something totally predictable. During Martha My Dear, Paul McCarty’s piano intro will fade, and the melody replaced by a violin. It happens every time. Regardless of how much “stuff” was thrown at me on any given day, I can always depend on it happening.
To this point, this discussion has been all about us as individuals. Flying solo when enjoying music is amazing in itself. The value of having an opportunity to identify, acknowledge and celebrate the common interests and passions we share with others is immeasurable. It also has an added benefit: Hitting the “mute button” on all things you don’t have in common with others. All is good in the world. And your best friends ARE your best friends. As it should be. At a live venue, your “closest friends” could reach 50,000.
Anesthetic is when we shut our senses off and deaden ourselves to what is happening. Music has a way of waking us to what we have inside of us.
Music is a lot of things to a lot of people. But it is NOT a distraction.
@waytoomuchstuff , No problem. I understand, completely. It's just that serjio has a history here (if you care to look it up) and spouts his nonsense. I just didn't buy into his false final thoughts on hoping everything can be/get better as he's using that ploy as a way of qualifying his remarks, which he sincerely believes in. Kind of like adding sugar to the poison so it all goes down as intended. All the best, |
@waytoomuchstuff ,It's nice what you do for your local community, bringing people together by way of finding common ground and all, but in all honesty, are you equating of my calling out serjio for interjecting his nonsense in an audio forum as the same thing he did? Sounds a lot like bothsiderism to me and not at all in keeping with your mission statement. All the best, |
I think a lot of people who would say "music is a distraction" are either jealous of your situation or just don't get it due to their limitations, which is a sad state of affairs. It reminds me of my brother in law who rides a Harley and when I spoke of a neat looking bike I saw that was a cafe racer inspired design, he dismissed it as a fad and nothing more. Lots of people are overly protective of their likes and desires and somehow feel threatened when you have ones that are foreign to them. As for transporting one away from the worries of the world, it's why I do it. I can't afford to live in the mountains or go on a retreat but the next best thing is to immerse myself in music and just wander off to who knows where. All the best, |
