Have you considered taking out the hearing aids for listening? You might need a balance control but it may work well. I know my Dad uses TV Ears for television and takes out his hearing aids. This works best.
The other thing with TV ears is that they are mono which gets rid of many imbalances. You could try almost any phones in mono?
The other thing with TV ears is that they are mono which gets rid of many imbalances. You could try almost any phones in mono?