@james633 The subs come with a low pass fliter.. If the main speakers start to roll off at around 50hz and then set the low pass filter on the sub to 40hz you should be in the ballpark.
REL also recommends connecting the subs through the high level connection and DO NOT use the pre-amp sub out. Go direct from the amp to the sub plate amp. This way you pick up the dynamic character of the amp.
Also, you don't have to high pass to the main speakers either. They can be run full range and cross the sub low. There really is no reason to introduce another piece of equiptment.

