"Grow a Pair"??? Since when does rudeness in insulting people become second nature and acceptable?
Enough of my bandwagon.
First Sellers come in many different types:
1. Those that price items at or near current market value and won't accept offers slightly less than that number.
2. Those that price items at or near current market value and will accept offers much less than that number.
3. Those that have done no pricing research whatsoever and price items well above market value for whatever reason.
4. Those that price the item based on whatever criteria they hold and are willing to negotiate the price down.
Purchasers also come in many different types:
1. Those that want the item for themselves and know the fair market value of the item and are willing to pay that amount.
2. Same as above, but want the cheapest price they can find.
3. Same as above, but also believe that price negotiations is mandatory and insulting if one doesn't haggle.
4. Those that don't really want the item for themselves, but only want to flip the item for much more money and want to buy at the lowest price and sell at the highest price they can sell at.
did I miss anyone?
I can't speak for others, but, I buy because I want the item for myself and I am willing to pay a fair market price for the item. I research the item and determine the fair market price (blue book typically) and try to pay that amount. I don't try to ask for less than the asking price if I know the original price is fair. That is me. However, as I said, I can't speak for others.
When I post an item for sale on Audiogon, I research the prices first and typically post a price that is slightly below the fair market value. In other words I price it to sell. That does not mean that I am desperate and will die if I don't make the sale. I've dealt with flippers and lowballers for years. I simply ignore their offers, because Yes, it is insulting and they should know better.
But, there is no harm if they try to get a very low price. I just don't (fortunately) have to respond to it.
It is amazing how this society has turned insults around and try to place the blame on the person that is being insulted, instead of the insulter. Insult someone's culture and it's their fault. Wow! Insult a person that posted an object for sale at fair market value that was in turn insulted by the lowballed offer and decided to not respond to the lowballer's offer and it is that person's fault. Wow!
Maybe it's just me, but there is a large degree of simple, evil rudeness crawling from under rocks lately.
Just ignore the lowball offer or not and say no thanks. Either way, neither is rude.
You are going to sell your item eventually to someone else that really wants it and will appreciate it. Be patient.
enjoy
