Did you give your Dynaudios enough time to brake-in? The only sure-bet i could think of it is Harbeth Studio 30. Maybe too polite for H/T, but killer music speakers.
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I would think you would want to stay with a Dynaudio product in order to have the best sound match with the surrounds. If that isn't an issue, a pair of Reference 3a MM De Capo-i might work well for you. Definitely not forward sounding and nicely dynamic for a monitor. Generally thought of as a music (as opposed to HT) speaker--but should work at least as well for HT as the Dynaudio Special 25. They are available here on A'gon for less than $2000 used.
Get better amplification, Classe's multichannel amplifiers are notoriously weak and have difficulty with power hungry speakers, you are probably clipping the amp so much that is why the sound has come forward. Classe CAV amps have a great deal of difficulty with 4 ohms speakers too.
Dynaudio's are never forward unless amplification or room acoustic make them.
I probably will not get much support on this, but your amplifier is the weak link in your system. Almost any multichannel amplifier in the $2000 price range out performs the Classe.
Give it try...speakers are not your problem.