I should think the "snap" of a snaredrum is above sub frequencies, around 1.5-2khz, so I don't see how that would be addressed by having warm speakers on the end of a "sterile" amp that you "probably will never like"!
But if you insist on finding those, Opera and Spendor come to mind.
But if you insist on finding those, Opera and Spendor come to mind.