There shouldn't be any requirement for 'goop' on the bearing flange. I've used the VPI lead filled platter on my TNT for about 20 years and never experienced the slippage your friend reports.
The bearing spindle on the TNT's has o-rings which grip the spindle hole of the platter fairly tightly - in fact it's awkward to lift the platter off without lifting the bearing/ spindle. You'd have to be really torquing down the clamp to move the platter levelling grub screws on the flange.
Does your friend have the o-rings on his spindle?
Which clamp does he use?
The bearing spindle on the TNT's has o-rings which grip the spindle hole of the platter fairly tightly - in fact it's awkward to lift the platter off without lifting the bearing/ spindle. You'd have to be really torquing down the clamp to move the platter levelling grub screws on the flange.
Does your friend have the o-rings on his spindle?
Which clamp does he use?