Paul, thank you for sharing this tragic news. I will keep Pat and his family in my thoughts and prayers. I hope he will feel better, and able to re-join us soon.
About Lugnut -- Patrick Malone
Many of us have come to know Patrick Malone (Lugnut) as a friendly, helpful, knowledgeable and kind individual. He is a frequent and enthusiastic contributor to our analog discussion forum. He has initiated only 17 threads, but responded to 559 threads. I would guess that many, if not most, of us can recall a time when Pat replied with helpful advice to a question we posted or helped us track down a rare recording. I have come to love Pat as a friend, and to respect him as a man, and I suspect many of you share those feelings.
Today I write to share difficult news with you. Pat has been diagnosed with an aggressive stomach cancer. It has yet to be determined whether surgery will even be worth it. If surgery is performed, most or all of the stomach will be removed, and Pat would face a difficult and long post-op period in the hospital. The medical course is still uncertain, but will be determined soon. Whatever is decided, it will not be easy or pleasant.
Something may be planned in the future to assist the family. For now, Pat could use some of the friendship he so often and willingly showed us. You can email Pat at: [email protected]. You can also mail cards, letters ... or whatever. You may email me for Pat's mailing address. My email is: [email protected].
I hope to spend a few days with Pat in Idaho or Nebraska (from which he hails) soon. Between this news, my legal work, getting ready for family arriving for the holidays, Audio Intelligent, and trying to make plans to visit Pat, my head is spinning. If you email me and I don't respond, please understand that I am not ignoring you, but rather simply do not have time to reply.
Pat may or may not have time to respond to posts here, to emails, or to cards mailed to him. But he has asked me to convey to each and every one of you that he has cherished your friendship, your comradery, and sharing our common hobby on this great website.
As we prepare for our holiday season celebrations, and look forward to -- as we should -- enjoying this time of year, I ask that you keep Pat and his family in mind ... and softly offer up, in quiet moments in the still of night and early morning, prayers for Pat and his family. God bless.
Warmest regards to all,
Paul Frumkin
Today I write to share difficult news with you. Pat has been diagnosed with an aggressive stomach cancer. It has yet to be determined whether surgery will even be worth it. If surgery is performed, most or all of the stomach will be removed, and Pat would face a difficult and long post-op period in the hospital. The medical course is still uncertain, but will be determined soon. Whatever is decided, it will not be easy or pleasant.
Something may be planned in the future to assist the family. For now, Pat could use some of the friendship he so often and willingly showed us. You can email Pat at: [email protected]. You can also mail cards, letters ... or whatever. You may email me for Pat's mailing address. My email is: [email protected].
I hope to spend a few days with Pat in Idaho or Nebraska (from which he hails) soon. Between this news, my legal work, getting ready for family arriving for the holidays, Audio Intelligent, and trying to make plans to visit Pat, my head is spinning. If you email me and I don't respond, please understand that I am not ignoring you, but rather simply do not have time to reply.
Pat may or may not have time to respond to posts here, to emails, or to cards mailed to him. But he has asked me to convey to each and every one of you that he has cherished your friendship, your comradery, and sharing our common hobby on this great website.
As we prepare for our holiday season celebrations, and look forward to -- as we should -- enjoying this time of year, I ask that you keep Pat and his family in mind ... and softly offer up, in quiet moments in the still of night and early morning, prayers for Pat and his family. God bless.
Warmest regards to all,
Paul Frumkin
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In the tune of life you might hear a sour note but the band plays on. Pat, That is one of the most profound phrases I've ever read/heard. I'll remember that. May the Good Lord bless you with courage and strength in this battle. My heart and prayers are with you and your family in your time of need. It's good to see the outpouring of friendship at times like this. I wish more of us could 'be there' in body like Steve and Paul. We are all there in spirit though. It's great to hear from you. Please drop in when possible, or when needed. Sometimes just talking (even internet chat) is good for the mind, body and soul. Have a happy and a healthy new year, John McGrogan |
Hey Pat! Great to hear from you! You didn't happen to buy a new car, did you?? Don't laugh too hard, you'll pop a stitch. Seriously, thanks for taking the time to chat. It can be uplifting in difficult times, even if it's just cyber-chat. Spin some vinyl, relax, and get plenty of rest. Let your body heal. In trying times having friends like Steve and Paul is priceless. We all should appreciate the finer things in life, like a walk on a sunny day, and a good, true friend. At times like this we realize that AudiogoN is really about community and friendship, not just electronic equipment and licorice pizza. Keep in touch, and I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. Cheers, John McGrogan |
Pat, It's good to hear from you, thanks for sharing the good/bad news. It sounds like the day was pretty good overall, take away the doc talk. Guess what? They're not always right anyway. I know, I got two ex- brother-in-laws that are doc's. They're as human as the rest of us. Now it's up to you to prove 'em wrong. I went in the hospital for a procedure on my right knee just before Christmas. It called for local anesthetic. Well didn't the d@mn doctor start scrubbing up my left knee. I yelled out 'WHOAAAH NELLY!'. Then he started scrubbing up the wrong side of my right knee, his technician pointed this out. He finally did the procedure, and they cleaned up where they had gone in. When I got home I showed my wife, my left knee, and the outside of my right knee were still stained brown from the surgical scrub! They only cleaned up the third and final scrub, the place they went in! Just a short story to let you know that doctors aren't infallable. Keeping your spirits up and staying positive is more important than letting some doctor bring you down. You need to live longer just to spite that SOB! That'll show 'em. They ain't God! Give 'em hell Pat! Best Regards, John |
Well, well, this thread is amazing, always with new plot twists, just like a good novel. Hello Mary, welcome aboard. Nice to hear from another of Pat's family members. Pat, I can somewhat identify, as my mother went temporarily insane also. She had 9 kids in 7 years, after having 3 kids in 7 years myself, and seeing the pressure's that can place on one, I have more of an understanding why she 'lost it'. I cannot even imagine that many tiny, needy people all at once. She is much better now, but not fully recovered. Her 'issues' is the reason I quit school and moved away from home. We're back on speaking terms now, but it will never be a 'normal' relationship. I have 8 sisters, 2 older, 6 younger, they kept trying to get me a brother, until they finally gave up. I also have a sister named Mary. She is the only one who still cannot forgive my mother. She hasn't spoken to her for over 20 years. I've tried to talk with Mary, because I feel life is too short to carry around all this anger. I also feel that the only person injured by the anger is the one carrying it. It's not healthy, one must learn to let it go. I know that is easier said than done, but we must try, for our own sake. Time to jump off the soapbox. Pat, unamplified jazz, were they playing their own material, or covering old classics like Miles Davis, Coltrane, etc? That's my favorite genre. How was the sound? Mary, I just happened to be spinning Neil Young's Harvest Moon last night! Has anyone heard Greendale yet? I've been thinking about ordering that one. Neil and Van Morrison are two of my favorite longtime male vocalists. Their songs really move me. Best Regards, John |
AHHHHHHHHHHHHKKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!! Maybe we should all just stay behind our keyboards!!!! LOL!! I have no room to talk, just having fun! Pat, let you freak flag fly! Neil Young. I cut my locks years ago, not in conformance, but for laziness. It's much easier maintenance short, as my wife will tell you also. Thanks for the pic, it's nice to put a face with the names. John |
Welcome back Pat! Good to hear from you, I do hope your condition will continue to improve. I'll be very interested in your impressions on Greendale, that is high on my list for new vinyl purchases. Although to be honest, I haven't had as much time to listen to the harvest I reaped at Christmas. I must have been good, because I got about 2 dozen new LP's for Christmas. I have listened to them all at least once, but I just never seem to get as much listening time as I'd like. I need to get a dedicated listening room, that will help. My boys are getting older, so it shouldn't be too much longer until I can steal one of their bedrooms and convert it to my own private domain. Anyway, here's to better health, quality tunes and great friends I say (raising my mug). Cheers, John |
Pat, You make the best decision for you at the time, and never look back. I agree that the quality of life is much more important than the quantity. I watched my father eventually lose his battle with cancer, while the rest of my family complained that they didn't think he fought hard enough, I cannot say that I ever blamed the man. He had survived bone cancer surgery 25 years earlier and 2 heart attacks. I felt if he had tired of the quality of his life, he'd more than earned the right to decide to make a quicker, more comfortable transition. May God bless you Pat, and may your decision work out for the best. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. Now enjoy the good tunes, great friends and wonderful family. John |
Awwww Pat, and anti-Super Bowl party? Coincidentally, I'm having the biggest one ever. As I have three sons ages 14-20 and our hometown Eagles have finally made the big game!! For the first time in my childrens lives!! E-A-G-L-E-S EAGLES!!!! I'm headed out now to pick up more supplies. Enjoy the tunes. |
"I'm looking for a copy of Nate's "Greatest Bits"..." Look for it in Best Buys. It's release date is 9/20/05. It'll will be a two volume set.....on any blank DVD-R's. Also, recorded on 9/10/05, and released on 9/14/05, will be Lugnut's 'Wind Breaking for Nate' bit. This is not available on DVD, but sold in vacuum sealed, cryogenically treated COUNTRY BLUE PORCELAIN GINGER JAR Limited quantities, available only through Saks Fifth Avenue online. :-) Cheers, John |
Pat, I enjoyed our phone conversation today, and your guidance. Muchos gracious for your valuable time and assistance. Fellow AudiogoN'er's, it speaks volumes of the man, that with all that is going on in his world, he still has time to make analog recommendations for fellow hobbyists. Of course he also has me convinced that heaven is in Idaho. Now I just need to convince my wife of that. :-) Howard, thank you for your report, and for being there for 'us' that cannot visit in the flesh. I hope Pat knows we are all there with him in spirit and through our prayers. Barb, I officially welcome you to the circus. :-) I've read so much about you in a strange way I feel like I know you. You are Pat's rock, and we all pray for God's love and caring for both of you in this intense life struggle. You are the light of Pat's life, that is obvious from my time with Pat. May God bless and comfort all of you. Warmest Regards, John |
Barb, thank you once again for the update. Pat, Barb, you and your families remain foremost in my thoughts and prayers. As I sit here on this beautiful autumn afternoon, listening to some wonderful vinyl, your post has given me the motivation to shut down the music, and talk a nice long walk on this wonderful day. Be sure that you all will be in my thoughts as I go. Counting my blessings, and enjoying each and every moment. Pat, God's speed be with you my brother, and may the he bring Barb some comfort in her hour of need. Cheers your friend, John |
Hi Pat, I love you man! This is the first time in my life that I'm literally sitting here crying at my keyboard. I'm glad that your burden (pain) is finally gone, but the world was a better place with your presence. Know that you touched many, many hearts and lives. May God be with you now, and spread your loving presence with your family in their time of need. Barb, Amanda, and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. {Raises his pint of Guiness} To my friend/buddy/pal Pat Malone........Salute!! Warmest Regards, John |
Barb, thanks for the photos, what a beautiful puppy. Take care of yourself, and try to get plenty of rest. As this can be a very stressful time, and you need to take care of yourself now. We all know how detrimental stress can be to our well being. I'm sure Pat is smiling bright up above from the wonderful tribute, and he's hoping Gracie helps you with your transition as well. Thanks for the update (and photos!), God bless, and keep in touch. Warmest Regards, John |
WOW! It's hard to believe it's been 3 years already! It feels like it was just about 6 months ago I was chatting with Pat. Time certainly is not slowing down..... I do envy those that got to meet Pat Malone in person. Through stories from members like Albert, Doug and Nate, and the several long phone conversations that I had with Pat, I do get a pretty good picture of Pat. He was fun, engaging with just enough 'off the wall' mentality to mix in. He could ft in just about anywhere. I still miss you Pat, and I pray that you are happier and pain-free now. Laughing and dancing to the live music in the sky. Peace, John |