At full volume (worst case) the combination of amp Zin and passive should be at least 10X source Zout but let's go with 100X. Pubul's 50 ohm source should see at least 5K so a 10K passive looks to be a great match. A 10K passive in parallel with the 100K amp is 9K.
My source is 50 ohms Zout and the amp is 100k ohms Zin. The passive I just built uses transformers to step up the signal from the source. These transformers are wound for sources that are ideally 100 ohms Zout or less (but could go as high as 300 ohms). Also, the sources must be opamp driven, as many CD/DACs are, not transformer driven. The passive also uses 10k Alps pots.
So basically, the 9k number listed above would apply giving me about a 200:1 ratio. Also, and I think that I have read this above, just want to make sure I understand, with a 10k pot the output impedance rises as the knob is rotated clockwise until it reaches 10k. Did I get this right?
I too wish like AA pictures can be posted here. If you would like to email me offline with one that would be fine.