Why do people care what their speaker wants?

Exactly! But they hardly ever do!  
So what are we gonna do, mind meld? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yW3AJ3twQMo

All speakers are different. They don’t want anything, instead they need. So they are needy...😁 give them what they "need" and they will reward with great sound. As one poster stated, you can just throw a bunch of sh*t together and hope it sounds good. There is impedance, sensitivity, tone, timbre, dark, bright, neutral, warm....etc etc....but you know this. However if you do not care about such details and what you threw together sounds good to you, then I guess that is all that matters. Ears are like fingerprints, no two are the same. What may sound good to you may sound awful to someone else. I say who cares, as long as I’m happy and it makes me want to listen.

If speakers are women then give them want they REALLY want:
Shut up and listen.

Folks are merely asking what experience others may have with equipment matching. With a vast plethora of combinations hard to make decisions without starting with a few opinions from fellow audiophiles. 

i think miller has finally lost it completely 😆