Capeguy:
"this is a hobby, not life or death."
So, your hobby is gossiping about individuals and their personal/professional lives in public forums?
"even if i had j10 address which i do not, i wouldn't call him and ask him about something that may be painful for him to discuss with anyone lest of all a stranger."
and... instead, you decided to discuss the incident in a public forum (JS has posted @ AA and I assume reads these forums as well). Whether I lighten up, or not, I still find this thread to be of poor taste/judgement.
Granted that certain people in the industry have cried out (by their actions) for public scrutiny, I do not consider JS to be in this group.
