what is it in audio that you dislike most?



Hello everyone,

The positives in the audio hobby are extensive. incredible preserntations. sound which reaches out and grabs you physically and emotionally. it can be both soothing and exciting simultaneously.

despite its innate attraction, from time to time there is something related to the audio past time that can be absolutely irritating, disparaging, or is just plain offputting.

Now and then there is soemthing in the presentation, or at a dealership/seller you simply can not abide.

maybe it is how you were/are treated in a dealership or showroom by the salesman. Maybe its just his or her attitude that hits you wrong.

could be the system being shown is setup incorrectly.

could be too that various components are not even plugged in properly and the supposed demo is just clumsy and unprofessional.

maybe even the speakers have not been appropriately configured to the space, or the amp to speaker matching is off, reversed, or out of phase.

worse still, various items are not run in well.

Perhaps all is great at the showroom or show but in the sonic depiction there is no bass, or not enough, or it is merely a one note affair.

could be its a bright shrill, top end.

as well, maybbe you hate to find the demonstration dry or without detail and without depth.

what is the thing in or about audio dealers, demos, or listening that you find unacceptable, irritating, or that you simply will not put up with for long, or at all?

Examples
1 A sterile or analytical presentations. highly detailed yet uninvolving.
2 A bright strident top end.
3 ill defined imaging
4 Poor lower range representation.
5 A dealers condescending attitude " if they don't sell it, it is not worth owning."
6 Dealers that say, Why in the world would you want tubes and all that distortion they bring to the table?
7 Dealers that say Yes, we are an authorized seller of XYZ but we don't inventory any of their products, but we can order them for you.
8 no dealerships near by.
9 snake oil
10 price
etc....

I'm sure you've run across something about the sound or the transaction experience which you have found
makes you walk away, or want to turn it off.

what is it IYO?

thanks
blindjim

well, it seems you have found the problem. (s)


Although I've found when I believe the vast majority of others have issues, I gotta wonder how I'm the only one who doesn't.


IC chips were an advancement in the science of electronics. they sure did not help the SQ though. ICs did make manufacturering cheaper. 


off shore production makes things cheaper or did until recently. but that wave has yet to land on our heads/pockets fully.


it takes more than science. You can always bet on that!


Science is just a part of the equation. there is artistry in the design which when both are combined, culminates in escalating performance. 


as for data sheets and spec sheets, testing, the numbers which will always matter most are the ones I can or will throw at this or that component which I feel fits in my system, or will be a fundamental part of it. using specs only to formulate a buying decision is putting oneself on pretty thin ice.


the real test or examination of any component is the one we do with our own ears.. and or eyes.


often, I’d rather default to the size and weight of a thing in order to make a buying decision more so than to place my faith entirely on its specs, all things being more or less equal. especially with amps.


as for musical preffs reviewers use? that coin lands face up on both sides. the accounts which convey nothing to me are those writers which testify they are using some arcane, super eclectic remote unknown cut or album, sometimes only available on vinyl LP, or all their selections are classical movements you have never heard. such accounts are a sheer waste of time to try digesting.


it makes the author look like a card carrying snob who lives in a very small world.


the idea is to relate to prospective buyers, not to show you know about music no one else does. such articles miss the freakin’ point completely and are a waste of time. but arrogance & snobbery is or has been a real part of this hobby for a long while. and its just too bad that  its stench  still lingers about now and then..


I have a number of ripped tracks from alternative, Americana, Bluegrass, and Country music which have as much fidelity and polish as do my Jazz and classical tracks, but it is audio heresey it seems, for a writer to mention their use in an account of expensive audio equipment. too bad.


High price, low science. Always a problem, though it seems to be slowing down. More science, lower prices -R2R DACs, signal wire, waveguide/horn speakers, subwoofers, etc.

Reviewers that do it wrong. Use a speaker with (1) amp, a room too small for speaker, magazines/webzines that don’t seek a second opinion.

Reviewers who listen to pop and rock music. Good for teenagers, but I’d like to know what a speaker sounds like with grand piano, string quartet or jazz ensemble. In other words, real instruments. With start, stop and decay.

Reviewers who don’t reveal things they didn’t like. But might later -Arthur Salvatore touched on this on his web page.

Stereophile's speaker measurements. Won't rent a semi-anechoic room, even gave up smoothing-and-averaging in a room (test in driveways), no distortion, no cavity noise in db. They probably don't push an amp too hard either when testing (it).

Nasal-sounding music choices on youtube videos. I go there to hear a product with a spectrum of sound, not to hear a cello or solo violin.

People who don’t know what’s going on. In 2019, some *still* think LP sounds better than 16/44 digital, tubes have more "bloom and decay" than solid-state, switching amps "omit the highs", horns "honk", etc. These are old problems. We have moved forward.



@Rackon>

Audio store salesmen assuming my husband is the audiophile when we shop together as a couple.


Speakers with tipped up treble and/or narrow sweet spots.


blindjim>

Ouch! 

Salesmanship today in many cases is a lost art and respect as well seems to have disappeared. I do get it. Sorry.


On that ‘head in a vice’ and tipped up treble bit, the limited sweet spot is an unacceptable proposition though a treble issue can come from numerous respects.


Setup is key and attending to electrical concerns in showrooms is not always done exceptionally well. I’ve heard far more than one demo instance where the top end was just bright or etched as the result of the PLC they were using or if no PLC was in play. Speakers not well run in, recorded material,  etc even the wires in use can either contribute or be culprits.


But I get it. The speakers sweet spot and the top end MUST be amenable to the listening experience or I’ve no consideration for it/them.


Never understood why someone would buy speakers whose presentation was properly delivered to one square foot of space, more or less.

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For me, its a dry, clinical, sterile lifeless presentation even if all else is being rendered appropriately.


Music is best served wet. Or at least moist. Never dry, brittle, or crumbly or stale.


Audio store salesmen assuming my husband is the audiophile when we shop together as a couple.

Speakers with tipped up treble and/or narrow sweet spots.

Compressed recordings.

@joshfilm

blindjim>
good call. especially on #3


kink
The poor sound quality of most recordings is my main complaint.


blindjim>
plus 2 on recording quality. it is a shame only jazz and classical seem to get better attention on the whole, than most other genres.

... and yes, I'm convinced having a dedicated low fi rig, ala desktop? is necessary to routinely appreciate those poorly done productions.

a fella in the recording mixing, and production vein once told me they would in the past mix music according to the demographic they envisioned buying it and further imagined the gear they would use for playback.

maybe that theme is back in vogue and much is being mixed for mobile device playback.

the woe of it is today the tech is immensely advanced and why labels are not striving to open new revenue streams via offering top quality HD cuts in addition to their main stream consumer slag just escapes me completely.
+1 on the poor sound quality of most recordings. Some thrive on the pursuit of finding those quality recordings. Not me. 
Too few opportunities to hear gear that sounds/looks interesting.

Dealers that change their tune on a company the minute they no longer represent them.

The white-washed positivity of (and lack of any critical descriptors in) most audio reviews. I get it, but it gets annoying.
1. great songs/albums ruined by hideous production recordings that get worse with "better" systems. Some are mixed SO poorly that I often hope those responsible have been sacked
2. resale
3. placing excessive emphasis on digital playback hardware design (DAC topology, oversampling, filters, jitter reduction techniques and such ) when it's the actual recording that determines outcome. For instance, Stephen Bennett acoustic guitar sounds amazing on my stock car system streaming over BT from my Tidal app running on my phone. See #1
4. mega equipment with poor room acoustics
5. accessories that tout "believing in" to hear the benefits
6. dealers who "participate" in member discussions



The outright lies, deceptions, claims that defy all laws of physics and BS just to justify a higher price for equipment that does exactly nothing better than what they are crapping on . . .

@knever>
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blindjim>
Everybody is a critic. forgive me but it seems your huberous is showing.

although to some extent and it appears its happening just now, I agree, folks are constantly abusing that freedom of speech bit.

so you are not to keen on free thinking, but obviously, you adore all that Audio has to offer. Congratulations.

next time I post a thread, I'll make sure to check with you first so it keeps closer to your codes of and for expression., rather than to simply allow unrestrained free thoughts to roam or litter the web's forums.

my bad. sorry. lol

or, one could merely keep their input on topic rather than to condem or censoriously critique it which adds absolutely nothing.
For me reasons as follows:

Overly priced, specially when you live at a retirement level.
Loses at resale.
When they push gear because they want to reduce inventory.
Digital sounding amps.  I just heard $6000 worth of Rotel digital crap that ruined the sound of perfectly good B&W 804 speakers.  The salesman finally said, "I know it is not something you could listen to for an extended period".  If I designed something this terrible, I suppose I could add some tubes to the output to smooth it out.  Designers, just use some good discreet parts for god's sake... so to speak. 
Yeah, right. It’s everyone else’s fault. You are just a victim. 😩
What I dislike most is the industry.

The markups from manufacturers and dealers are absurd. Instead of servicing the affordable market with good products they instead shovel out crap -- class D, green circuit-board integrateds, switching PSUs, el-cheapo 10lb speakers, IC-based amps, etc and so on. Consumer trash.

Having a good system shouldn't cost the same as a new car. Having a high-end system shouldn't cost as much as a luxury yacht. It's not defensible, and I hope they go out of business when the last of the boomer's savings accounts and credit lines dry up.
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I don't know if I can really "dislike" it , but my best friend sells and installs music and video systems to high wealth clients. Over the years I have been the recipient some of those client's used equipment. This allows me the opportunity to own pieces I could never imagine at very reasonable costs. 

The dislike is when he pops in with a piece ( new or used ) and I have to drop everything so we can pull existing piece(s) out so I (we) can listen to what he has brought .  I feel it's hard to improve on what I already have , but sometimes I just have to keep what he's brought... Accckkk.  Just when you think it can't get any better and then it is ! 

What a hobby, but it is still cheaper than a boat or second home... 
( so far ).   


a greater proliferation of audio dealerships and the consequent increased visibility of various maker's gear, is only going to happen with increased support by manufacturers.

the difficulty there is obvious. the audio industry is proliferated by 'cottages'. a cottage industry at its finest is how many label this realm. as such, sheer production is going to be a limiting factor... at least initially.

a handful or less of folks soldering this to that is never going to generate the numbers needed to begin 'floating' dealership inventories so the makers entire line up gets the visibility it/they need to entice or educate the buying public.

money, either desire for it, or the lack of it is the moat around many castles preventing them from becoming Metropolis.

a new perspective on a dealers inventory status is needed.

Reforms on present 'floor planning' agreements is necessary. Floor planning is keyed to financing product via a third party so product can simply sit on a showroom or in a dealer's back room still in a box and essentially as an unpaid unit.

it reasures the maker and enables the dealers a window for possible sales without paying everything FOB, or immediately when it comes off the truck.

FP provides an agreement is required somehow so makers gear can get to, and reside in this joint or that for a period of time before it is either paid for, or sent back to its maker or some other dealer's showroom.

this is a dicey prospect at times.

the maker agrees this dealer or that can possess the thing for X amount of time then pay it off, or a maker forces a dealer to put in place a third party which will indemnify the dealer for payment.

this is not a free thing for the dealer unless the dealer can move the stuff within the span alloted before the 'vig' is applied.

the reason Best Buy, formerly Sears, Macy's, your local auto dealer, etc. have the enormity of product in house is because of floor planning. very little of that inventory is already paid for 100%.

most of it is on 'loan' so to speak using in part agreements with the maker and as well entities like GECC which get a percentage of the cost of each piece of any makers gear which has not been sold after some predetermined period of time.

These 'finance' companies wil send reps to do the actual inventory at every location a dealership runs to log what is or is not on hand routinely.

if not accounted for they will also ensure payment for it has been transmitted or demand it then.

the FP agreement may be as long as 180 days, or as little as 30 and this period is between the maker and the seller.

then too just good sense will dictate how long something could sit statically as development, and manufacturerring steadily roll along despite sales... to a point anyways.

either makers of gear will begin to step up production so more gear will be available for distribution to which ever dealership, or makers will begin opening their own doors here and there to promote their product and acquire greater public visibility and interest, ala, BOSE, YAMAHA, SONY, JVC, ARCAM, MARANTZ, MCINTOSH, FOCALE, B&W, KEF, SONUS FABER, AR, KRELL, etc., all of which have the wherewithall to produce stuff in great numbers so it can sit at national chain stores such as the former Sound Advice.

these windows guaranteeing inventory beyond usual financial limits of a dealership also promotes sales where profit margins are diminished so product can be moved without penalty of tarriffs from the FP agencies. this also helps the industry and buying public at large.

here is where in production terms, the one guy, several guy or gals oriented makers will not be able to compete. they will either keep the status quo and make new arrangements for getting paid soem time later from a dealer, keep sales strickly in house on a direct to consumer basis, or acquire likely off shore plants which can make the goods as per the designs so production is escalated, ala Prima Luna, silverline, etc..

maybe too makers will entertain partnerships within the industry and open their own doors in more exclusive arrangements, ala Martin Logan & Krell, BAT & Avalong, etc..

one thing for sure is so long as production and consequently visibility shelters high end audio within the shadows and peripheries of mass retail markets, it will continue as a minor, eclectic, niche market whose development will never achieve the status and wide spread appeal it might.

remember, there was once upon a time an enterprise named BOSE and another one called SONY that no one knew anything about. through innovation and marketing, became giants in the audio industry.

naturally some makers will stick to their self imposed 'exclusivity' they have formulated into their brand and keep the status quo, therebh  existing as egnigma more than tangible. dreamware rather than hardware. 


and yes... a flat, dry sterile presentation makes me walk away almost immediately.
The Loudness Wars, i.e., heavily limited (compressed) recordings. It just pisses me off to put on a CD that sounds like it was probably a nice recording but I have to turn down the volume to "2" because they smashed it all to hell and it just blares out of the speakers. Particularly egregious is "Remastered" versions of old classics where they obliterate all of the original dynamics and pretend that they've released a better version. I've been spending a lot of my music exploration time seeking out mid 70's through early 90's recordings because that is before this horrible trend. There is a huge reservoir of great music that I previously never stumbled upon, much of it recorded to tape, that sounds so much better than 90% of modern releases. This is also the reason I kept my vinyl and turntable. Those old records sound way better than many of the same titles on CD.
Great topic. I wish Hifi audio was more diverse in its followers. I'd like to see more young people and people from different walks of life in this hobby. We all listen to such a diverse amount of music but the typical audiophile profile doesn't fit that. I also detest the snobbery---there are so many audiophiles out there that will never be able to afford a Macintosh or Audio Research amp. So what? They have a nice Yamaha integrated amp. OK. They're still audiophiles. 
I miss having good Hifi stores in my city----there's 1 (at best) where there used to be many back in the 80s-90s.
And I wish I had more audiophile friends. I'm trying to get them into the hobby by showing them how good music can sound.

skyscraper
Fortunately I don’t have small children to starve to afford further upgrades.

blindjim>
so.... we're supposed to feed children?

. Well, that sorts out a few things but its gonna destroy the current food budget .

no sale, or walks, as they are called by the dealership/salesmen are lost revenue. plain and simple. gone money.

Dealers can't sit on the notion the 'wild and wooly web' is killing them all by itself. The web is just another competitor, not THE assassin.


larry
Most dealers operate on a shoe string. They don’t have inventory to demo and if they do, they assume you will not buy the higher end lines.

blindjim>
Definitely understood.

I know for a fact its tuff to have upper range inventory at all times. I know as well upper end pieces can be brought in so a demo can be arranged and then offers on it/them, considered if or when a buyer is serious and that goes back to qualifying. the dealer's relationship with the manufacturer, or other dealers carrying the same or similar brands.

In fact if some sort of 'rent an in home audition' affair can be agreed on, and I were serious about moving up or into some higher end device, I'd be willing to pay for it. within reason, of course.

surely enough to over come shipping and add in some value for the good faith aspect.

I mean, there are those folks in audioland who are getting pieces in their homes for indiscreminate periods of time so they can review it/them without any preconception the piece will be purchased once the article is drawn.

what happens to those pieces after their interview?
same thing for show ponies, er, pieces. do these just go back in the box and await another packing and shipping maneuver?

I've little problem with buying a demo piece if it is sold with the same asurances a new piece would come with albeit at a lower price of course.


markcdaniel
My personal rules -
1) Always be respectful
2) Never poo poo other people’s gear
3) Listen to other’s questions without bias
4) Answer with your knowledge, not your sales quota or personal agenda
5) My Mom always taught me that if you don’t anything nice to say, don’t say anything

blindjim>
Mine were enjoying eating and living under my own roof, so I would do within reason, everything possible to close a sale and often that merely meant being knowledgable about the products on hand, its competition, considerate, thoughtful, and able to meet the needs/desires of the buyer.

I never wanted anyone I could not sell to feel they should never come back for something else later on. that is purely bad business, and unforgivable to display abismal public relations.


keegiam
The extreme expense and added complications of reproducing the bottom octave.

blindjim>
you are preaching to the choir. well said.

sibilance is a pet peeve of mine too.


sleepwalker
are as meaningless and awkward as an elephant riding a unicycle on a high wire.

blindjim>
LOL
not everyone is a wordsmith but product knowledge does seem to be pretty important when one is asking for large wads of frog skins from strangers.


audioguy
The high and mighty snobs that berate those that can’t afford $10k Magico speakers...and then private message them to continue to make said person feel like a loser....

blindjim>
ouch.
I've run into one or two of those myself.
with one such seller I had to call the cops to get him to cease and desist as the situation descended well below civilized correspondence and well into ridiculous threats. of bodily injury.



unison
easy to buy to hard to sell...

blindjim>
Been there. Done that. I call those items my 'trickle down pieces, or antique collecting in advance.


bdp24
1- Not currently having a music room big enough for my Magneplanar Tympani T-IVa loudspeakers.

blindjim>
a former statesman once said, "tare down that Wall!
but then, you're probably not in Berlin are you? lol


technick
Then the owner came over, looked at the screen, and said, “Oh, Tekton, the new Bose of this year

blindjim>
I would have replied, Only this year?

an audio salesman once asked what would I have if I could have anything in terms of powewr train (line stage and amps) for a stereo rig.

I said VAC, VTL, BAT, or Thor,. He looked at me like I was speaking Mandarin so I asked, Haven't you heard of these?

he shook his head, No.

Ayre lynn, and Krell were his Gods at the time, nothing else existed apparently, nor was he predisposed to research the true scope of his career and the major players therein.

as for sonic annomolies I hate,, it has to be bright, etched top ends...

OK, and sibilence.

and yes... poorly resolved, flabby, and or weak bass.

alright... you've dragged it out of me, too polite a presentation.
a reproduction which is so easy to listen to you fall asleep in the doing.
Being talked down to by my local HiFi store and a story to go with it.

So, I’ve got my “buddy” who works at my only local HiFi store, who I go and talk with and listen to gear when I can, so that’s what I did. I told him about my recent purchase of my Tekton Pendragons only to hear, “Dude! Why didn’t ya call me or come see me first?! You know I studied speaker design”. What the last part of that meant, I don’t know and don’t care. I just simply told him “Because you guys don’t carry Tekton. No one does except for Tekton”.  I told him how I loved the speakers and that they worked perfectly in my system. He just said ok, accepted it and we moved on. Then about 15-20 min go by and he said something like “You know you don’t need a million tweeters to sound good.” Then I was starting to get irritated. I said I know that and what’s that got to do with anything? My speakers don’t have “a million tweeters. Some Tektons do, but I’m sure there’s a well thought out reason for it”.

We then went to the front of the store where the computer is, cuz he wanted to look em up. Then the owner came over, looked at the screen, and said, “Oh, Tekton, the new Bose of this year”. 

I was obviously not only very irritated at this point but just thinking. What? You’ve gotta be kidding me. Really?! I asked him if he’d ever heard a pair, and he said “No”. Than how can you say that about them? “I just know speakers” he says. 

I just laughed and called him an ignorant a&&hole, and that he’d just lost a long time customer, and that the only reason he didn’t like Tekton is because he wasn’t able to carry the line, and that the only room I ever look at in your store is the one with the used stuff in it. 


1- Not currently having a music room big enough for my Magneplanar Tympani T-IVa loudspeakers.

2- A component I've been saving up for goes out-of-production before I can buy it, immediately thereafter becoming all but unobtainable.

3- Not having enough time left on Earth to get to all the music I have yet to hear. I'm assuming that's about ten more years, but then I'm not an optimist. ;-)

The most annoying is my own desire to upgrade/improve/diversify my system. I stopped it several years ago when I retired - easy to buy to hard to sell...
The high and mighty snobs that berate those that can’t afford $10k Magico speakers...and then private message them to continue to make said person feel like a loser....
People who are not articulate, use incorrect terminology or cannot concisely acquit themselves. The expressions: “vinyl deck” or “rig”, etc... are as meaningless and awkward as an elephant riding a unicycle on a high wire. 

Not really a dislike - more of a frustration:

The extreme expense and added complications of reproducing the bottom octave.
I concur on snobbery and would add trolls on the forums. My least favorite para-phased scenarios that chap my hide -

“You asked about component X, but let me impart my sage like wisdom upon your pitiful brain by telling you how component y sucks so bad that you need not worry about component X”

”I happen to be a dealer for the aforementioned component Y”

”if you are an audiophile, you must have unlimited funds, so let me tell you how component Y can bring you nirvana for a mere sum equal to the national deficit.”

“Cost equals performance, no way you can get sound from $10K speakers paired with a $5k amp. And that $1K preamp has to go.”

I thoroughly enjoy this hobby and 99% of the people, but a few bad apples easily spoils the bunch.

My personal rules - 
1) Always be respectful
2) Never poo poo other people’s gear
3) Listen to other’s questions without bias
4) Answer with your knowledge, not your sales quota or personal agenda
5) My Mom always taught me that if you don’t anything nice to say, don’t say anything

Most dealers operate on a shoe string.  They don’t have inventory to demo and if they do, they assume you will not buy the higher end lines.  Their show rooms are usually low budget and they don’t bother to master set their speakers.  They want to sell things like REL subwoofers, but they aten’t even hooked up with their high level Speakon cable.

Albert Sportis at Precision Audio in Chicago is the real McCoy.  He had huge inventory and does things right.  And, no I do not work for him!
The disappearance of record stores, and the high price of good equipment. Fortunately I don’t have small children to starve to afford further upgrades.

James, I had the same experience of a dealer upping the quoted price $200 at the register. I was so excited about the purchase I didn’t catch it until I got home several hours later. He did return the overcharge the next day when confronted, offering up a lame excuse. I was going to buy a $6000 amp from him too, but took my business elsewhere.

Mike.

mahgister
People who swear by measuring rod,

blindjim>
there is wisdom in that line.
specs have their place, but it is ears and heart that pays for it in the end.


rickallen
Snobbery.  ... when someone gets uppity or condescending or judgmental even, it really grinds my gears.

blindjim>
I've no clue where an arrogant attitude came on board in the Audio industry, but in numerous such venues, it sure did!

in not one sales tactics or salesmanship handbook have I read where a succesful way to close a deal is to belittle the buyer or come off demeaning competition or as you said, direct someone to buy this or that as it appears to suit them, without the buyer being ihn accordance with the item being offered.

I used to get really offended by those who thought they could read my mind or make it up for me.

now it makes me laugh and just ask for the owner, and let the owner know why they lost the sale. then see if the owner tries to salvage the deal.

locally I've gone into audio shops and left nearly as quickly as I walked in due to the shop's inherent lack of product knowledge and or a salesman's attitude that leans heavily on intimidation or arrogance and not properly qualifying desires and ability of the buyer properly.

in fact I'll never return there though they mnay have exactly what I want. life is too short.



jameswei
16 years ago, I bought a turntable, arm, and cartridge rig from a well-known retailer and I paid the high end price.

A month or so later, the retailer called me and said he had to ask me for another $2000. There must have been some miscalculation.

I did pay him, but I didn’t like it.

blindjim>
wow. you are one helluva guy.
that dealer would not have seen more $$$ from me on that deal.

well, not without a gun in his hands.

sorry. I have a long standing policy.
all deals once agreed to and paidin full, are final and the buyer is not allowed to make additional payments.

so far that policy has been flawless in its implementation and application and it seems to work for both parties.

I did run across a dealer that enjoyed naming one price in the showroom and at the register enjoyed it just as much to increase the price.

I said we need to go back into the demo room and pay for this thing. paying at the register costs too much!

yeah. really. and more than once

nice enough guy but i guess he deals with a lot of alzheimer paitients., or may be one himself.
Thin sounding music with no thump. Very little impact that some folk call neutral. It can be crystal clear, but without some dynamics, I'm not a fan
Tidal and Spotify search engines which do not
provide an option to search for Composers of classical music and the use of first names rather than surnames for search purposes. Who on earth would think to search for Chopin under F?
Tech snobs
BS
Inadequate bass, and bass bloom
Extreme tweeters (mostly horns) assaulting my bony labyrinth

...but so far I have experienced only good and happy personal interchanges with buyers and sellers on Audiogon!
16 years ago, I bought a turntable, arm, and cartridge rig from a well-known retailer and I paid the high end price.

A month or so later, the retailer called me and said he had to ask me for another $2000. There must have been some miscalculation.

I did pay him, but I didn’t like it.
Snobbery.  You like what you like and I’ll like what I like and ne’er the twain shall meet.  When people try to say their gear is superior I can’t help but think “for you”, or that this speaker is the ultimate “for you”.  So when people try to prescribe to one another what they should do or buy or like about their enjoyment of the music (which is what it’s about....or should be) and gets uppity or condescending or judgmental even, it really grinds my gears. 
People who swear by measuring rod, without knowing what the ears is truly, the most complex and subtle apparatus there is for perception of music, not only sound in a restricted acoustical sense of the terms...


In this hobby my pleasure is listening music given to me by my own creative effort and experiments to gain the most beautiful sound for the music I live with...Tweaking all for the best is so exciting and after that rediscovering a music I tought I have known before realizing what I had missed all the time because of a poor sound quality....

chayro
Seeing audiophiles at shows and grudgingly accepting the fact that I must be one of them.

blindjim>
LOL


elizabeth
because I own physically large speakers I MUST play music really loud. ()


blindjim>
Its true. talking to other uninitiated folks, to a person that is the first item they land on. wow. That much money? You must be able to play tunes at concert levels!!
it used to bug me, now its curiously funny.


millercarbon
What I absolutely dislike the most right now is FedEx

blindjim>
Ain't it the truth! hope it all works out well for you soon.


three_easy_payments
... but then I stumble on something that undeniably improves the experience even further. I hate this...and I love it simultaneously. Sigh.

blindjim>
From the 'sopranos"':
just when I thought I was out... they drag me back in.

BTW, I think they make a vaccine for that now.


viridian
... 45 years... Really, I can’t think of anything that I don’t like about the hobby.

blindjim>
Thanks. this thing needs more people like you.


wolf_garcia
I dislike the Amazon "Siri" gizmos ... hey're lame except maybe when used to solve domestic crime.

blindjim>
I figured if I used it to play music I'd have to turn in my audiofiliac credentials and I'd lose all of my   privileges.

for me its a $40 calendar, clock, timer, weatherman in a box, appointment reminder, language translator, measurement converter, thesaurus, dictionary, spell cheker, fact finder, Atlas, GPS locator, airline ticket purchase agent, AM sports radio, reservation agent, business finder, hands free phone, TV Guide, Rolodex, and once in a while its a remote controled light switch.

no. wait. that is my Google Mini..

the Amazon dot is just a bed side alarm clock. Its way dummer and has a lot more attitude by compparison., but it does look nicer and it lights up!
I dislike the preponderance of those Amazon "Siri" gizmos et al at friend's homes playing crappy and utterly lo-fi sound...sure, you can abandon your privacy to hear whatever you want from barking at the thing, but they're lame except maybe when used to solve domestic crime. 
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It's a love/hate relationship with myself - I'm really happy with what I have, love the sound and musical engagement - but then I stumble on something that undeniably improves the experience even further.  I hate this...and I love it simultaneously.  Sigh.
What I absolutely dislike the most right now is FedEx saying they left a Synergistic Research Atmosphere Level 3 Euphoria interconnect at my front door and I go and look and.... its not there.