Call Thiel, IMO the best customer service in the business.
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Check a local cabinet shop see if they can peel the veneer
fix the cabinet and re-press the veneer. Veneer can be re applied if was torn not ripped. Sometimes the real damage is the substrate and the veneer can be steamed and lifted.
Good luck. But go ahead and vent on your girlfreind, you have my permission. After all if you had spilled a coke on her coat, you'd be out buying a diamond ring or something.