Upgrade help needed
I have some $ to upgrade my audio systems but can't decide where to spend it. My current systems:
Home theater/2 channel audio: Triangle Titus monitors, Infinity IL120s sub, Sony SA 9000es dvd/sacd, Creek 5350SE, PS Audio Power Plant Premier, Schiit Bifrost DAC for the digital out of the cable box.
Office headphone system: RA HR-2 amp, Audinst HUD MX-1 (Dac only), UE-18 Pro, connected to a PC running Win XP and Foobar.
Home computer: Creative X-Fi Titanium HD, ATH-M50 (or UE-18 pro), Audioengine A2, connected to PC running Win 7 and Foobar.
I spend most of my waking hours at work so my first thought is to upgrade my office system. However, my company has the PCs locked down tight so there's no way I could install the drivers needed to support truly upscale DACs and could never ever install a nice soundcard. We also have an open floor plan so being that crazy guy with full-sized amplifiers on his desk or massive Stax headphones could be a poor career move.
At home, the headphone out from the Creek absolutely destroys the sound I get from my office system. The headphone out of the creek is pulled from the main amp stage with a large resistor in the path, so you get the full fidelity of one of the best $1500 amps ever made.
As for my home theater system, it's used maybe 75% tv/movies and 25% music. I have been unhappy with the sub/monitor integration for a long time, but am skeptical I have enough space for true full-range floorstanders to sound their best. I live in a Brooklyn brownstone which is long and narrow, with the speakers facing across the short side near the front windows. So, directly to the left of the tv/speakers are 3 angled bay windows and to the right is about 20+ feet of open space. Not ideal for hi-fi audio. Switching the system to aim the long way down the apt has been vetoed by my "better half" as it would require moving the couch into the middle of the room and the tv/speakers in front of the windows.
I'm unhappy with my home system because the monitor/sub integration never sounds right. The sub can fill in the truly low frequencies but if I turn the low pass filter up to where the triangles drop off it sounds a bit boomy and is distracting with low-pitched vocals and other effects not being located correctly. I'm unhappy with my office system because the headphone out of the creek just spanks it. Same with my home computer system. I haven't switched my creative sound card for a true audiophile one because I use my desktop mostly for gaming.
I'm rambling, but my brain has been going in circles for months and I can't decide what to do. I would spend up to $3k for the right components.
I have been thinking about upgrading my home speakers to PSB Imagine T towers, Monitor Audio RX6 or even Paradigm Studio 20 v.5, and ditching the sub (which will be +points with my better half) or buying Audeze LCD 2 Rev2 for my home system. The problem there is that these speakers that are great for home theater have reviews that say they can be be harsh in the high frequencies for audio. I'm pretty sure buying larger full-range floorstanders would get my kicked out of the house (not really). Then I start thinking about buying speakers for audio that aren't great for home theater even though the system is used mostly for tv. I could go on forever...
I've also thought about upgrading my Titanium HD to a ZXR. I've also thought about just spending serious $ on room treatments for my home theater system but the unbalanced space and wife disapproval factor makes me pause. I've also thought about upgrading my office system, but I don't want to bring gigantic headphones to work or keep a full-sized amp on my desk, and I can't install the drivers required for the truly hi-end DACs. I'm also skeptical that a headphone amp can match the fidelity I'm getting from my 5350SE. I don't want to spend any $ unless it will be a big upgrade.
I just don't know what to do. The only sound I'm truly happy with is the headphone out of the 5350SE, but that's what I listen to the least. The only sound my better half cares about is what comes out of the home theater system but that's what I care about the least. Every upgrade option is a compromise because I don't have the $ to upgrade them all. What would you do? Thanks!
tl;dr - Aaaarrrgggg.