I have lost the will to live reading this thread; I know, don't read it then. If I may be permitted to make a few observations, that seem self evidently true and I also know, most people won't agree with them.
1) If there is a perfect speaker out there for your needs, you'll probably never find it, so settle for 90%.. In my case Daedalus Audi Da-Rama's, which have kept me happy for nearly 10 years and I think there near 100% at the price.
2) There is little point listening to any component, unless it's in your system, in your listening room. So borrow from a dealer or buy second hand, to sell on at minimal loss, if you can't borrow.
3) In my experience, any new component will sound good initially. That seems to be because it changes the sound quality and our sensory systems are keyed to seek change in input.
That's also why, after a few weeks, the miracle new component often seems to disappoint.
The moral, if there is one. Put together a good system that suits your needs and stop the constant upgrades. A good way to do this is to retire, as I have, so you can't afford upgrades anyway.